No, I am probably not going to write stories for this blog (unless they are true). I just happen to lack that particular creative spark to write something that others (or myself) will find stimulating. I have tried it before, and have utterly failed -- there are quite a few things I'm good at, this is not one of them.
That said, I did want to talk about stories -- in particular, a request I make when meeting someone for the first time.
Before I play with someone for the first time, I have made it a common practice to ask them to send me a few stories that they particularly enjoy, or use when they are getting off. Stories can tell you a lot about what gets a persons mind racing -- what gets them hard, and what they might want.
It can be a slippery slope, as a lot of stories contain things that aren't actually feasible to do to someone, unsafe, or things that are more intense than that person is prepared to handle.
Used properly, however, you can leverage these to get 'inside' someones head - both to get them in the headspace and to mind-fuck them.
After all, what would you be thinking if you were suddenly the sub in your favorite story?
Short post, but some food for thought....
ps. Videos and Photos can work just as well, if you find someone who doesn't like reading his porn ;)
2 months ago